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Her Ambitious Career
Ever wish you had the insight, strategies and encouragement of an executive coach, with over 14 years experience, coming straight to you every single week? That’s exactly what you’ll get when you tune into 'Her Ambitious Career', with your host and personal brand expert, Rebecca Allen! What you'll get from Rebecca: Step-by-step, practical strategies to help you build your executive profile, manage up and establish yourself as that sought out expert. Set yourself up on the fast track to senior leadership. Articulate your value with confidence. Be more influential. This podcast is here to help you take the guesswork (and stress) out of proactively managing your career, building credibility and visibility and having a lot more fun in the process! Tune in, get inspired, and discover how hundreds of corporate women have achieved promotions, pay rises and dramatically grown in confidence by following Rebecca. Whether you're a female leader who feels unrecognised, are unsure of your direction, wish you were better at articulating your value or are ready to step into our own light and showcase your personal brand - we've got you! Each week Rebecca comes to you with ideas to help you take fresh action on the most important strategies you need to enjoy the career success and fulfilment you deserve!
Her Ambitious Career
Ep 128 - How Avoiding Difficult Conversations is Keeping You Stuck
If you know you need to have a 'difficult' conversation with someone - that you KNOW will help you a lot - but you can't bring yourself to initiate it... this episode is for you!
00:00
What kind of conversations do you find difficult?
1. Asking for pay rises?
2. Asking your boss about the future of your career?
3. Telling someone you disagree with their decision?
4. Calling out someone else’s bad behaviour?
5. Confronting someone who has shared your idea as their own?
6. Challenging a client on their bad behaviour?
7. Chasing a supplier who is consistently letting you down?
8. Giving feedback to a team member who is underperforming?
9. Disagreeing with your boss?
What's the cost to you right now... by avoiding having this conversation?
Does it cost your career?
Does it waste time?
Does it impact you mentally?
How is staying stuck impacting you?
05:00 - What is the fear of having this difficult conversation?
06:30 - People pleasing
08:00 - Using the skill of having difficult conversations to show you're ready for senior leadership
12:50 - 2 tricks to challenge your fear to start having difficult conversations
Here's something valuable I said today:
"There are a few reasons people avoid having difficult conversations: the #1 reason is FEAR. What could go wrong if I challenge them? What will the repercussions on me be? How might they judge me? If you work out how to overcome your fear, a lot of these issues evaporate." (Rebecca Allen, host Her Ambitious Career)
Links:
- Get Rebecca’s MUST-HAVE Guide: ‘The 7 Habits of Female Execs Who Get Promoted’
- A related ep I mentioned in today's episode: People-Pleasing Leadership - Is it Effective?
- And this ep too: What is Personal Branding & Why Is It Vital to Your Career?
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About Rebecca:
Hi, I’m Rebecca Allen and I’m an Executive Coach and Personal Brand expert for corporate women, aspiring to senior levels of leadership. I absolutely LOVE coaching and seeing my fabulous clients exceed their own expectations. I’ve worked for 11 years now as a coach and have helped women at companies including Woolworths, ANZ, J.P. Morgan, PwC, Coca-Cola Amatil, Ministry of Defence and Coles. I live for those phone calls from clients, jumping up and down, telling me they’ve got that promotion, negotiated a seismic pay rise or have moved into a role completely aligned with their mission, values and strengths. I’m a working mum of two wonderful children, adore travel and trying my hand at anything creative. I’d love to connect with you!